Good… Is not good enough!

It seems as if whatever we attempt to do or actually do, is usually measured by some standard or another. But what is good? Define good.

Good for me might not just be fair for you and vice versa!      

These are my thoughts -> As human beings, we have a moral duty to make the best of what we have and what we were given.  In the process, we must/should try to become the best of human beings, and sometimes in the process, we must stop for a moment and ask ourselves “What is good enough? What is the best for me? ” Good enough is sometimes not just enough.

I had this epiphanyGood…. Is not enough?”  With all of my good intentions, trying to pull off my “normal” lifestyle, it appeared that even though I was putting my best foot forward, it is just not worth it and the task that lies ahead is herculean and our efforts are futile.  May someday when it comes to you will understand what I mean!

It doesn’t make me nervous, but makes me realize that someone is bigger than us and that someone expects more out of me.

10/19/2009 update!

I received the email from one of my daily alerts – AstheManThinketh.net, and it said something like this

“Doing good is not enough when you are trying to become GREAT !”  Now I know, why good is not good enough.

A good and a bad day!

With the last day of September, I took time to reflect what I did involve in this entire month. But the point of this post is about Last day of September – Sep 30 – which means my second day of diet planning..

Today I ate just about nothing the whole day! Not because I wanted Erick to see I can survive on below 2000 calories but I wanted to take less calories in general and what it turned out to be that I didn’t eat much at all.

In retro, when I see myself during the events and the day in particular, I don’t feel that way, but my stomach complained in the night, which I remember quite distinctively :D Adding from the point that I ate just above 1700 Calories on the day1, I ate just about a little above the half of the same amount on day 2

  1. Milk and oatmeal cereal (warm) – 8:00 am– 200 cal
  2. Fat free Yogurt cup – 60 cal – 12:00
  3. Flattened rice made up with oil, onions, mustard seeds, ginger garlic paste, and boiled potato (1 normal size) – 600 Cal – 1:00pm – Whoa look at that! PS: The portion size was big so is the amount of cal
  4. Two hotdogs with buns and mustard sauce – 200 Cal – 6:00 pm
  5. Five strawberries – 50 Cal – 9: 00 pm

There you go, a near about 1100 Cal. Now you are probably wondering what is the bad about this day? You ate less calories and this will help you be lean sooner! RIGHT. ?? Well the answer is YES and NO.

Yes because eating less calories will definitely help me burn the already present cal (flab) and this way, because for everyday activities body needs around 3000 calories and rest of the gap would be used from your own existing flab and this will result in burning the fat and appear you leaner!

But wait before you can celebrate this lean moment of happiness! Why?

NO because if I continue this way, my body will soon realize this that it is faced with a starvation situation and guess what happens next – because of less calories, my metabolism runs towards the body itself to nourish it.

Now this is more complex than you think. Body is made of proteins and fats and many more things. When body understands that it is malnourished, the body metabolism slows down and starts to look for food in the body since it is not getting any from outside. That being said, since the metabolism is slowed down, it moves towards slowly digestible food and that is usually proteins. Surprised are you? Well don’t be. Body reacts differently than we think it will.

When our body is underprovided with food, the slowed metabolism doesn’t have the strength or will to go look for food around bones ( that is where fat is stored), alternatively what it does is that it goes to nearby muscle tissue and starts eating it up. Slowly and slowly the size of the muscle tissues becomes smaller and smaller and hence you become leaner and leaner, but this is very harmful for body.

Decay of proteins is a long process and is a continuous process whereas fat decay is short and fast process. Once your body starts eating tissue, you will feel leaner but you will also feel weaker as compared to when you lose fat, you feel better about yourself.

Now, let me tell you why is it bad? For a simple reason is that you can add carbs to your diet and fat will come back quickly to your body, whereas in case of proteins, this is not the case. First off, proteins are usually very less in food as compared to fats, and they are hard to extract from food for the body. Second the process to extract the proteins and then use it to create muscle tissue is a long process often multiple days extending upto a week and comes back really slow.

So, eating less can be good, but bad too! Be careful what you eat! And how much you eat! And most importantly eat healthy!

Time for a little twist

Twist – A little change of pace in the moronic way of life is sometimes a life saver. That is what happens Aaj Kal! ( these days). What has happened to life? Anyone? I guess we scrambled out our lives to the commonalities of urban working phenomenon. And in between all of the grocery shopping, picking up kids from school, laundry and eating out, we just lost the pickle of life – Twist/Change.

I was fortunate enough to grow up in an environment where I could see the sunlight by 6 in the morning flooding my room. This was partially because of the way our house was built ( Civil BS) and partially to my nature loving/urban phenomenon hating folks; they would sneak into our rooms in the morning when they get up and slide the curtains to the sideways, making already gigantic entrance of sunlight look even more behemoth and kill my need to sleep.

But that being said, change is almost always a good thing. And so is the twist in expectations.

I personally have always wanted to stay near LI/NJ/NYC/CT  area, for my personal reasons. In short, I just like it here. And in August month, I moved here ( read the story of moving here), it was a change. A change because of which I experienced new portions of life, a change which made me a little more grumpy ( for meeting weird people), a change which made me very loyal customer to Starbucks! ( My favorite Starbucks bar in New jersey), a change that made me go to Barnes and nobles everyday, a change that made me drive almost 200 miles every week, a change that made me cook everyday again and a change that took away all of my exercise! But twist with mint of change is good.

As I understand change is always difficult to absorb and accept.

Some people take more time to chill out and be back to normal than others and it is this very discernible ability makes people them real.This is what makes them, the real them. Think about it!

On the other hand, thoughts the most important thing in one’s conscious. I remember this famous quote

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny

Source : Thinkexist.com

There is more that I can talk and type in, but apart from this, I have a life ( with a twist) which I need to get back. I might be a king in real life, but all I am is a weapon drenched in swamp for now ( with a twist)!

For the fans from India homeland,

the teaser is  this. I like this song because it is peppy and light. Keeps you in a good mood! Works at least for me :D

Till my next musing! Chao!

Good reads

On insistence from a friend, I went to Good reads and to my amazement, I liked it. I thought I would just share.

Book worms love books

Book worms love books

I know it not be a big deal for the people who don’t read or are already expert users of this website, either way, I think it is a great way to keep in touch with what you are reading and your preferences.

If you are a book lover, you wouldn’t want to miss this website, if you haven’t been to it. Believe me, you won’t regret it.

There is plenty of books available to select and maintain your shelves from. And you create your profile and create an inventory of books you have read, want to read, and reading. And there you go,you share your reviews, books and catalog.